Being chit chat in Apex Cafe with my colleagues for about three hours. I don't think the environment is that nice as I expected before. As usual, most of them who are going to Cafe will bring a laptop for sure. But our actual plan were asking something so didn't bring the laptop out and just kept sitting, drinking and chatting for the whole night. Mimi kept trying on her phone but didn't know what's wrong with it, it just can't be online. =S
Wednesday, July 29, 2009
Cafe-Chat
Being chit chat in Apex Cafe with my colleagues for about three hours. I don't think the environment is that nice as I expected before. As usual, most of them who are going to Cafe will bring a laptop for sure. But our actual plan were asking something so didn't bring the laptop out and just kept sitting, drinking and chatting for the whole night. Mimi kept trying on her phone but didn't know what's wrong with it, it just can't be online. =S
Sunday, July 26, 2009
Miss them!


Had the marvellous moment together with Lai Qien and Chian Yee for a movie named Ice Age 3. I knew that this movie already in the theatre for a kinda long period but we three just watched it today! Luckily we changed our plan, didn't watch Harry Potter and spent our time on a funny movie. Iced Age is really great and all of them are so cute! I love the cute babe dinosaurs ~ We laughed almost every parts of the movie. Had a great great time with them! (:
I wish to get sushi as my lunch so we headed to Sushi Queen but it's disappointing me. Actually I don't feel wanna go there for sushi just because the mall didn't have either Sakae Sushi or Sushi King, so at last only I chose it. I'll rather back to Sakae Sushi nor Sushi King next time, no more for this outlet! My favourable sushi that I used to eat usually is kinda costly in this outlet compare to the other two! -.-
Hoping for another outing with Yee when she's back again! I'll be missing you badly! (:
Tuesday, July 21, 2009
Hug is important not SEXUAL ASSAULT!
Hugs certainly feel good, both on the giving and receiving end, and it turns out their effects are more than skin deep. A study by University of North Carolina researchers found that hugs increase the "bonding" hormone oxytocin and decrease the risk of heart disease.
Hugs are good for your heart, they lower blood pressure, and reduce stress, so make it a point to hug someone today! |
In fact, when couples hugged for 20 seconds, their levels of oxytocin, released during childbirth and breastfeeding, increased. Those in loving relationships had the highest increases.
Meanwhile, levels of the stress hormone cortisol decreased in women, as did their blood pressure. Said lead researcher and psychologist Dr. Karen Grewen, "Greater partner support is linked to higher oxytocin levels for both men and women. However, the importance of oxytocin and its potentially cardioprotective effects may be greater for women."
Hugging for Your Heart
"Scientists are increasingly interested in the possibility that positive emotions can be good for your health. This study has reinforced research findings that support from a partner, in this case a hug from a loved one, can have beneficial effects on heart health," said Dr. Charmaine Griffiths, spokesperson for the British Heart Foundation.
Indeed, a previous study, also led by Grewen, found that hugging and handholding reduces the effects of stress. Two groups of couples were asked to talk about an angry event, but one group had previously held hands and hugged, while the others sat alone. It was found that:
Blood pressure increased significantly more among the no-contact group as compared to the huggers.
Heart rate among those without contact increased 10 beats a minute, compared to five beats a minute for huggers.
What's more, Grewen suggests that warm contact such as hugs and hand-holding before the start of a rough day "could carry over and protect you throughout the day."
Benefits of Touch Start Early
A hearty hug in the morning may help your loved one ward off stress all day. |
Humans are clearly social animals, as evidenced by countless studies showing that those who have friends are healthier, as are people who are married.
We need social contact, and that includes touch, even beyond a couple's capacity. Take, for example, the fact that babies benefit from skin-to-skin contact with their mother with better physical development and positive bonding.
A telling example was a study of Korean infants in an orphanage. Those who received an extra 15 minutes of a female voice, massage and eye-to-eye contact, five days a week for four weeks, gained more weight and had greater increases in body length and head circumferences after the four weeks and at 6 months of age than children without the extra stimulation.
Therapeutic touch has also been shown to reduce stress and pain among adults, and reduces symptoms of Alzheimer's disease, such as restlessness, pacing, vocalization, searching and tapping.
Time to Get, and Give, More Hugs
"U.S. couples aren't very touchy feely in public," says Tiffany Field of the Touch Research Institute at the University of Miami Medical School. This is a shame as touch also releases two feel-good brain chemicals, serotonin and dopamine.
Yet, according to Field's studies of U.S. and Parisian cafes, French couples spend three times more time touching than American couples.
So what are we waiting for? Grab your partner, friend or family member and give them a hug today. And if you're really feeling bold, check out the first link below and treat your significant other to a special treat tonight.
12th year of Friendship
Now he's far apart for his futher studies. Wishing him good luck and everything go on very well!
I still need to treat you a meal. ^^






